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Recent stats suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is approximated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in marital infidelity.
That may seem like a very steep number. However after two decades plus of full time work as a marriage and family therapist, I don’t believe that number is off the charts. I worked with a great number of persons involved in infidelity who were never discovered.
The possibleness that somebody close to you is or soon will be involved in an extramarital affair (any of the three parties) is exceedingly high.
Maybe you will know. You will see telltale signs. You will detect changes in the person’s habits and behavioral patterns as well as a detachment, lack of focus and scaled down productivity. Maybe you will sense something “out of character” but be unable to pinpoint what it is.
It is not a given that he/she will tell you. Those hiding the affair will carry on to hide. The “victim” of the extramarital affair often, at least initially, is racked with anger, hurt, embarrassment and thoughts of failing that preclude divulging the crisis.
It might be indispensable to confront the person with your observations, depending on the status of your kinship with the person.
It is primary to understand that extramarital affairs are dissimilar and serve dissimilar purposes.
Out of my study and experience with hundreds of couples I’ve identified 7 dissimilar kinds of infidelity.
Briefly, galore extramarital affairs are reactivity to a sensed lack of intimacy in the marriage. Others arise out of addictive tendencies or a history of sexual confusedness or trauma.
Some in our culture play out issues of entitlement and power by getting “trophy chasers.” This “boys will be boys” mentality is subtly encouraged in numerous contexts. Some become involved in marital infidelity because of a high need for drama and excitement and are enthralled with the idea of “being in love” and having that “loving feeling.”
An extramarital affair might be for revenge either because the spouse did or did not do something. Or the revenge may stem from rage. Although revenge is the motive for both, they look and feel very different.
Another form of infidelity serves the aim of affirming personal desirability. A nagging question of being “OK” may lead to ordinarily a short-term and one-person affair. And finally, galore affairs are a dance that attempts to remainder needs for distance and intimacy in the marriage, ofttimes with collusion from the spouse.
The prognosis for survivability of the marriage is dissimilar for each. Some affairs are the best thing that happens to a marriage. Others serve a death knell. As well, dissimilar extramarital affairs demand dissimilar systems on the percentage of the spouse or others. Some demand toughness and movement. Others demand forbearance and understanding.
The aroused affect of the invention of infidelity is normally profound. Days and weeks of sleeplessness, rumination, fantasies (many sexual) and unproductivity follow. It distinctively takes 2 – 4 years to “work through” the implications. A good coach or therapist may accelerate and mollify the process. I don’t commend “marriage” counseling, at least initially.
The excessive damage and destruction aroused affect results from a couple powerful dynamics. Trust is shattered – of one’s capacity to discern the truth. The most crucial step is NOT to learn to trust the other person, but to learn to trust one’s self. Another is the power that a mystery plays in relationships. THE mystery exacts an aroused and from time to time physical toll that needs to be acknowledged and dealt with.
How may you help?
Those in the midst of their affair crisis told me they need this from you:
1. Sometimes I want to vent, get it out without censor. I recognise at times I will say what I shouldn’t be saying. It may not be nice, pretty or mild. Please recognise that I recognise better, but I need to get it off my chest.
2. Every so often times I want to listen something like, “This too shall pass.” Remind me that this is not forever.
3. I want to be validated. I want to recognise that I am OK. You may best do that by nodding acceptance when I talk when it comes to the pain or confusion.
4. I want to listen sometimes, “What are you learning? What are you doing to take care of yourself?” I may need that little jolt that moves me beyond my pain to see the more spectacular picture.
5. I may want space. I may want you to be quiet and patient as I undertake to sort through and express my thoughts and feelings. Give me a lot of time to stammer, stutter and stumble my way through this.
6. I want an individual to point out a heap of new choices or dissimilar roads that I might take. But before you do this, make sure I am introductory heard and validated.
7. When they pop into your mind, commend books or other resources that you think I might find helpful.
8. I want to listen each so often, “How’s it going?” And, I may want this to be more than an informal greeting. Give me time and space to let you know incisively how it IS going.
9. I want you to grasp and welcome the ambivalent sensations and desires. I would like you to be reasonably comfortable with the gray areas and the contradictions when it comes to how I feel and what I may want.
10. I want you to be predictable. I want to be capable to count on you to be there, listen and speak systematically or let me recognise when you are unable to do that. I will honor that.
Extramarital affairs are powerful. Affairs are costly. They affect family, friends, colleagues and employers. Infidelity is likewise an prospect – to redesign one’s life and love relationships in ways that invent honor, joy and true intimacy.
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