Most people would confront their partner once they suspect cheating but you should resist the urge to do this. The wisest thing you can do is to plan out your moves and be strategic in your actions. Imagine what kind of response you would get if you would instantly accuse your boyfriend of cheating?

Obviously, your partner will deny your accusation if you don’t have any proof or your proof is just circumstantial. It is vital that you are able to prove that your boyfriend is indeed having an affair with another person or else you won’t be able to counter their denial.

Do not expose your suspicions and jeopardize your chances at catching him in the act of cheating by confronting your partner. What they would perceptibly do so they won’t get caught again is to be more careful making it harder for you to find proof. Whereas if you play innocent and bottle up your suspicions, your boyfriend will have no idea that you are on the scheme of gathering proof of his hidden affair with someone else.

The best strategic move therefore, is to play innocent. Just think about what other people will say about you if they believe you are not listening. Many surprising thoughts may be revealed. They will not hold back on what they are going to say about you and let things unconsciously slip. If you are observant enough, you might be able to detect these slip-ups such as when your cheating boyfriend comes home with damp hair or smelling of soap. Do not immediately confront him. Take note of these and wait for the next slip-up.